What does a bum knee and birthday party have to do with designing
a fulfilling retirement?
A lot. Let me explain.
A lot. Let me explain.
I decided to mark my 55th birthday with a special
celebration—a reason to bring together sisters and daughters, and at the same
time be physically challenged. The Tufts 10K women’s race in Boston presented
the perfect balance of effort and enjoyment.
I reserved hotel rooms, booked dinner reservations, and decided
on a sub-55 minutes 10K training schedule. Little did I know that a yoga class
would derail my training and targeted goal. Due to a knee injury, I had to
settle for walking instead of running. I had looked forward to running a great
race—defying my age and running past women half my age. Instead, I got
something much better.
I can’t boast of a 55-minute race and yet this was one of my
most rewarding races. Why?
I learned that my need for connection takes precedence
over my need for achievement.
If I had been able to accomplish my race goal, I
would have done it alone.
Kim, Patrice, and Laurie |
Which brings me to retirement—the perfect time to
re-evaluate our priorities.
Throughout our careers we have been driven by
achievement—the next rung on the ladder. And while achievement still has its
place in retirement, we need more. Without connection, achievement is superficial.
But start with connection and add achievement, you have a winning combination!
Note: Although I ran my slowest race, I walked my fastest
race: 12.1 minutes/mile.