Having recently returned from an Alaskan cruise, I know
first hand that travel is a great way to enjoy my newfound time in retirement.
With endless places to explore, I could spend weeks, months, even years touring
the world—that is if I had endless financial resources. I don't, and so at some point I have to go
home.
When I say go home, I'm not talking about my two-story
Colonial in rural New York. Instead, I'm referring to a new way of living—a new
orientation to life. If you're like me, you've found that retirement disrupts the
sense of direction and purpose you knew in the workplace. Abruptly we face
a blank calendar and open schedule, with very little to orient our day. This is
one reason travel is so attractive. As long as there is the next trip to plan
or excursion, we're relieved of the responsibility to create this next stage of
life.
So what is home? For now home may feel unfamiliar to you,
like you're journeying in an unknown land. As William Bridges says in his book The Way of Transitions, "Things
aren't the old way, but they're not a new way yet either." And yet, maybe
home is something we've known all along. According to Glinda, the good witch from the Wizard of Oz, "Home is knowing,
knowing your mind, knowing your heart, knowing your courage. If we know
ourselves, we're always home, anywhere."
If you don’t feel comfortable taking instruction from a fictional
witch, then consider the definition of home from Elizabeth Gilbert, author of Eat, Pray, Love. In her Ted Talk, "Success,
Failure, and the Drive to Keep Creating," Gilbert states, "For
me, going home meant returning to the work of writing because writing was my
home." Furthermore, "if you're wondering what your home is, here's a
hint. Whatever in this world you love more than yourself. Creativity. Family.
Adventure. Faith. Service…. Your home is that thing to which you can dedicate
your energies to such singular devotion that the ultimate results become
inconsequential."
My Alaska trip was a wonderful experience and a reminder
that I definitely want to include travel in my retirement years. However, vacations
are not going to keep me from discovering the other amazing places my life can
go when I'm happy being home.
Copyright 2016. Patrice Jenkins. All Rights Reserved.
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