“Have you blossomed? Are you still blossoming? Or are you
blossomed out?”
These are the questions a friend asked me while we were
enjoying lunch on my deck. Hmm… I thought for a few seconds. I hadn’t been
asked this question.
And then I knew the answer.
“As long as I’m choosing courage over comfort, I’m still
blossoming.”
This phrase, “courage over comfort” comes from Brené
Brown, research professor at the University of Houston and best-selling author.
These three words have provided the nudge I’ve needed to initiate difficult
conversations, challenge status quo, say yes to something outside my comfort
zone, and to keep blossoming in retirement. In fact, when you practice courage
over comfort, retirement is fertile ground for blossoming.
Heidi Zak, Cofounder of Third Love, warns us that, “The
status quo will always be here, so have the strong conversation with yourself
and take the leap. It’s hard, but these decisions are the ones that really
change the direction of your life.” Courage over comfort.
According to Brown, “Courage is contagious. Every time we choose
courage we make everyone around us a little better and the world a little
braver.” If the contagion factor is true, then my friend went home with a
little more courage to create the life she wants in retirement.
Copyright 2018. Patrice Jenkins. All Rights Reserved.