It’s nice to believe that once you retire you’ll suddenly
have the motivation to exercise more, eat healthier meals, expand your social connections,
and be more thoughtful of your spouse. According to happiness research, all
these factors contribute to a better quality of life. The problem is research
also suggests if you’re not doing these things already, you’ll be less apt to
do them in retirement.
Retirement tends to magnify what exists. So if you’re
currently outgoing and social, you’ll tend to expand on this when you have more
time in retirement. And if you’re not so social, you tend to be even less so in retirement. The same is true for exercise.
Those who exercise before retiring, increase their
physical activity in retirement. The
opposite is true for less active people, who tend to become even more sedentary.
This magnifying effect also applies to committed relationships.
Couples with a healthy, positive relationship continue to
enhance their connection in retirement. The reverse is true for couples in
unhealthy relationships. To put it simply: The good gets better. The bad gets
worse.
The time to start preparing for the magnifying effect is
before you retire. Take an inventory of the quality of your life. What would you
like to change? What would you like to do more of in retirement? Then begin now, before you retire, to make
these changes.
Believing you’ll suddenly be a different person the first
day of retirement is like believing you’ll suddenly have the motivation to lose
25 pounds starting January 1. It might work for a while, but like most New Year
resolutions, old habits don’t change because of a date on the calendar.
Instead, gradually start to make these changes. When your retirement date
arrives, you’ll already be on your way to a happier and healthier future.
Copyright 2018. Patrice Jenkins. All Rights Reserved.
1 comment:
Hello Patrice,
Thank you for this inspiring article! It made me think and write about seeding what we want in a life. Maybe that's of interest to you, too? If so, this is the link to the article you inspired me to write: https://jana-lindberg.de/what-you-want-in-a-life
Thanks for your blog. It's always fascinating and thought-provoking.
Jana
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