Earlier this month I invited you to write a letter that describes 2019 in detail—your best year yet! If you haven't written your letter, do it now. You might have noticed in the past couple blog posts, I ask you to do something, then I build on this in the next post. Creating the life you want takes action. You can’t watch from the sidelines. So if you're playing catch up on an assignment, that’s okay. Just do it now.
Once you know what you want to happen in 2019, what are you going to do about it? How do you turn a dream into reality? How do you make the uncertain, more certain? Answer: Use your letter to inspire action.
Jonathan Fields, author of Uncertainty: Turning Fear and Doubt into Fuel for Brilliance, says, "When you are driven by a calling or a deeply personal quest and you allow that calling to inspire action, you live in the world differently. You do a thousand little things you've never done before. You act and interact with more confidence and vitality….You begin to radiate the quest. You come alive." This is how your letter comes to life!
To get started, choose one thing from your letter that really matters to you. Then ask, "To accomplish this dream, what actions will I take?" I suggest beginning with an ambition that's creative and fun. If losing weight has been on your list for the past decade, save that for later, after you've built up some momentum. Experience the power of the letter to inspire action, and then use this fuel to help you achieve the more challenging goals.
In my letter, I wrote, "Because I was intentional about putting friendships on project status I have a group of people who I can easily reach out to. It's wonderful! And just what I needed. I knew I had to do something or else go through life lonely." This quest has inspired me to reach out to people, invite them to lunch or dinner, and be more open and vulnerable. Or as Fields states, "do a thousand little things you've never done before."
I've reread my letter multiple times. Partly because it's fun to imagine the life I wrote about and partly because it reveals what I need to do to make it a reality. I'm holding myself accountable to achieve these plans. Not from obligation, but from inspiration. I'm pledging to my future self a best year yet!
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